Transformation Happens in Dark Times

If one lends assistance to a butterfly in its attempt to escape from its chrysalis(cocoon), the butterfly will die.  It needs the struggle to send fluid to its wings so it can fly.  For the butterfly, what seems like a […]

Overcoming Codependent and Enabling Relationships

Attempting to rescue others from their pain, problems, and suffering creates co-dependent relationships that bring the enabling or rescuing partner more pain.  It creates a one-sided relationship where one partner works desperately to make the relationship work, caring more about […]

You Can Not Break

Sometimes the things we experience take us down so low that we may feel broken.  We look at ourselves as broken. We see our hearts as broken.  Our finances as broken.  We say we have broken friendships, broken contracts etc…  […]

Wiping the Slate

We continue to write formulas on our chalk board of L.I.F.E.™ over the formulas of pain, hurt, and negative experiences of the past hoping for a new beginning. However, this jumbled pile of formulations continues to build up until we […]

Opening the Pathway for Love

Everyone wants to feel they are loved.  Everyone wants to be loved and share love. However, the reason love is so difficult to find, is because one is always looking for love outside of themselves. The most rewarding relationships begin […]

Surrendering All to Gain More!

We never feel comfortable giving up our power or agreeing to forgo anything to another person and that is why it is so difficult to simply surrender all our issues and problems over to Spirit.  It is not your faith […]

Why Go Down With the Ship?

There are times in L.I.F.E.™ that you may become so steadfast on something working that you may be in denial of the sinking ship.  You’ve done everything you know possible to save the situation and the people in it, including […]

Stop Sacrificing Your Own Feelings

All healing is an internal job. You can administer the band-aid, which is a word of kindness, an apology, or in the case of physical illness, medication.  However, the healing always comes from within emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually.  These […]

You are One-of-a-Kind! BE YOU!

You do not typically think of yourself as unique and special.  This is because society teaches you that you are supposed to fit in.  Shame is the catalyst that is used in our society to assure that you continue to […]

What Fear?

What Fear? Wow! What a great question we can ask ourselves to gain the courage to overcome our fears. Remember, fear’s main job is to warn us of impending danger. It’s natural design is to trigger our fight or flight […]